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Monarch Butterfly

Friday, January 13th, 2012
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Around the 20th of December, we were playing outside when we saw a monarch caterpillar hanging upside down in the telltale J-style form, ready to pupate. It was jiggling and squirming, bobbling in small circles, with its back end stuck to the underside of an areca palm frond with silk. We kept playing, waved to the mailman as he delivered mail to the houses on the other side of the street.

A few minutes later, Kendall and I came back to see the caterpillar. The lower half, where the head is and the “J” curves, was pupa green. It was swelling in some parts and squeezing in others, very dynamic motion. So a few minutes after that, I cam back to see the cater-pupa and found that it had completely morphed. It was green, textbook monarch chrysalis. It didn’t yet have the gold-looking line around the cap of the pupa, and it still had its former “skin” crumpled up at the top, where the silk holds the pupa, the “cremaster,” if you speak butterfly science.

When the mailman was making his rounds our side of the street, all of us were really excited about the newly morphed pupa, and the girls told the mailman all about it. All he can do is smile and nod because he didn’t understand a word that the three-year old’s were telling him. I wanted them to tell the story, so I only translated.

We could have all sat there and watched the whole thing in no more than ten minutes total, but I was under the impression that the morphing took about an hour. Now that I know it takes minutes, I’ll definitely stay to watch next time.

Just before going camping for Taylor’s birthday, the pupa started turning black, a sign that a)it’s dead, or b) it’s ready to exit. The black shows more in the end because the wings are mostly black. After a day and a half of its turning black, one can see the orange and white through the clear, thin pupal “skin.”


January 5 in the afternoon


January 6 in the morning

Clearly, we would be missing the butterfly’s emergence because we would be out camping.

He did leave us a present, as they all do when they emerge and go off to survive:


Pupal skin

I caught a picture of this one.

I can’t find his pupa if he did successfully morph. I’m sure we’ll see him again, though.

Bicycle Streamers All Grown Up

Wednesday, December 21st, 2011
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I ride my bike to play the piano at the church service. It’s only about a mile away, so I don’t really need to drive the big van. I thought that it might need some more than my pretty self, so I looked around for streamers. I found only streamers that go on a little girl’s bike, which are too shiny and frivolously whimsical for me (although I like shiny, whimsical frivolity). After Googling three-word terms, I found this blog that gives instructions on how to crochet bike streamers. I switched the direction of the rows so that I can triple crochet to add buttons (for easy applying and removing).

I like the way they came out, the cool colors. They go with my long, flowing skirt, which goes with my long flowing hair. All I need is a basket to hold crusty baguettes to sell… and French customers to buy crusty baguettes.

Prefer Skeetoos to Hialieahites

Saturday, November 19th, 2011
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Ty’s birthday was on Monday, the 14th, so we went camping on Saturday, the 12th. We headed out in the morning to Everglades National Park, where else? We took hikes around the usual places and saw the usual wildlife. Many Black Vultures sat along the trails. They migrate here from the north during autumn. They are friendly, curious birds. Turkey Vultures are quite a sight to see soaring and gliding, but they are not curious but nervous and will fly away if people approach. At Royal Palm, the babies walked around, which was different because I would carry them when they were younger. Now that they are a bit older than the last time we were at Royal Palm, they were safe as long as they were holding someone’s hand.

We hiked to the Mound from Gate 15 and saw that it was covered in broom sedge. We had been seeing the sedge grow and become more established during the past seasons, but this time, it was tall. Not just the sedge but the trees were taller, too, of course. Though it is expected to see taller plants, it also is a bit disappointing to see a view blocked by them. We were standing 50 feet above the Everglades waters, but the view was covered by these plants. Eh. The wood storks and vultures were pleasant to witness as they flew low to the water, almost at our eye-level as we stood on the Mound. The boys took their usual trip around the Mound while the girls sat around and daydreamed.

We made it to Pine Glades Lake where we ate lunch and presented Ty with his birthday present: a fishing rod. The boys fished for a couple of hours, and the girls waited in the van. I was sleepy, so I napped. But that made it difficult to keep the girls entertained in the van. Eventually, they napped, too. I tried my arm at casting and fishing but caught nothing. Everyone caught nothing.

We set up camp at Long Pine Key. It was a busy weekend, the day before being Veteran’s Day. Our usual campsite was occupied as was our second-usual site. Not that we have rights to them, but it’s always reassuring to be in the same place. We found a site on the border of the forest and the Road Closed sign, and had only one neighbor. Eventually, the Road Closed signs were taken down to accommodate for the higher demand of campers.

Night fell, and the mosquitoes buzzed and bit. I put on my mosquito net because they absolutely are in love with my blood. Kendall, who has the same attractive blood, also wore hers. Still, they bit her hands and legs. Annoyed by them, she climbed into her car seat in the van and kept saying, “Skeetoos hit me. I outta here. I home.” Hot chocolate made her and everybody else feel better. The children brushed their teeth and went to bed in their tents.

Dad and I stayed up to watch the fire. There was also some commotion at the camp site about a hundred yards to the west. I’m not sure what was going on, but the Park Police showed up on foot and spoke to the campers. I was trying to pay attention to the voices, but the mosquitoes were incessant, no matter how close I sat to the fire. I crawled into my tent at about 10:30pm, which is awfully early: Dad and I usually stay up past midnight. The crowd was very different that weekend. I heard a man a few sites over shouting “HIALEAH!” which is a town northwest of Miami proper and almost directly north of the international airport, heavily populated with loud people… I think because they have to shout over the sounds of landing 747′s.

At 12:30am, I was woken up by the sounds of clanging bottles.

At 5:00am, I was woken up by a bat’s squeaks, and I stayed up, listening to nature, which included mosquito buzzing.

We had a pancake breakfast with coffee (or water, for the children) and headed back home.

From Schinus to Gallus

Monday, October 17th, 2011
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There’s a Brazilian Pepper that lives on the western corner of our lot. It’s an exotic that starts out as a neat little shrub but grows insanely fast into a tree with a trunk the circumference of a beach ball and dozens and dozens of branches that divide into hundreds of drumstick-width branch-lets that have thousands of blossoms and eventually fruits, the peppercorns, that fall and germinate, starting off as neat little shrubs that grow insanely fast into trees with trunks the circumference of beach balls…. That’s why these plants are under the category known as Invasive Exotics.

The Suriname Cherry is exotic, but it’s not invasive. The Strangler Fig is invasive, but it’s not exotic. The Brazilian Pepper is a menace to wilderness society and must be terminated.

So last Saturday, we started cutting it down, determined to end the reproductive cycle of that brutal, bulky, Brazilian baobab. Dad cut the limbs with the pole saw. I dragged it to the designated work space. The three older children processed it into manageable pieces with the loppers and bypass pruners. We all stopped to take a breakfast break and drink some Gatorade. Then it was back to work.

The sun wasn’t out. The sky was overcast with stratus clouds. The air was damp but not uncomfortable. We were grateful that it wasn’t hot. We did get to see a wake of vultures, both Turkey and Black, gliding above us.

As we were killing this tree, or attempting to, the neighbor’s lawn crew came by, Haitians who spend several hours in the backyard, making all kinds of high-decibel noises with their power tools. Of course, we were also making whirring noises with our God-given talents.

It started raining a little bit, light drizzling but constant, enough to get everything wet. Dad had brought down the largest, ugliest limbs from the tree, so we called it a day. I was sent with the girls to run some errands.

In the evening, while we were at home having dinner, we heard chirping in the backyard. Both Dad and I heard it simultaneously because we perked up our heads and looked toward the backyard. As soon as he could, he grabbed a flashlight and headed toward the noise. The children followed him. The noise stopped.

We both thought it was the chicks from a nest that may have been dropped when its supporting branch was cut down by the neighbor’s lawn crew (because they cut freely). I took the children back inside the house to give Dad another chance to find the chicks.

“There are chicks in the backyard.”
“What?”
“There are three chicken chicks in the yard.”
“In OUR yard?”
“Yea! As if someone stepped close enough to drop them in our side of the fence.”
“Oh Wow.”

We placed them in a bucket and showed them to the children. They were astonished to see real live fowl chicks for the first time. Kendall was the first of the children to see them, and her eyes, looking down into the bucket, were big and brown in surprise.

We suspect the Haitians for dropping off the chicks. Excuse me for being judgmental. Their culture is weird, and maybe they saw through the hedges that they hacked to anemia that we already had rabbits. What’s a few more birds? That’s the first thought that entered my mind when Dad mentioned what the chirping was.

They were placed in the spare cage and settled next to the rabbits. Dad laid out some water in a jar lid, and I propped up some wind protection and a roof over the cage.

On Sunday, they were let outside to run free a little bit, to practice catching bugs and grubs from under rocks, which weren’t many because of the constant drizzling. They scratched and pecked at the compost pile and were finally put back in the cage.

Today, Ty was out there, wearing his rain poncho, in front of the cage, playing with and handling the yardbirds. I just hope they are not roosters, but even if they are, we will all learn a thing or two about chicken culling.

The Suth’n Ten Commandments

Friday, August 19th, 2011
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Plain an’ simple:

(1) Just one God.
(2) Put nothin’ before God.
(3) Watch yer mouth.
(4) Git yourself to Sunday meetin’.
(5) Honor yer Ma & Pa.
(6) No killin’.
(7) No foolin’ around with another feller’s gal (or ‘nother gal’s feller).
(8) Don’t take what ain’t yorn.
(9) No tellin’ tales or gossipin’.
(10) Don’t be hankerin’ for yer buddy’s stuff.

An’ bless your little cotton pickin’ heart!

Taylor, the Newest Seamstress

Sunday, August 14th, 2011
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Taylor just completed her first sewing project. It didn’t take long at all, about fifteen minutes.

My cousins and aunt from Alabama came down for a visit. They brought some toys for the boys and twins and a Simplicity Lockstitch sewing machine for Taylor. She was really happy and carried around the machine in its packaging for a day and a half. I told her that I’d teach her to sew as soon as we had time, but with all the home projects that we had, Dad and me, there really wasn’t any time.

Yesterday, before we left to a pool party, I taught her to sew straight lines. But the bobbin thread was too tight. The needle thread was too tight. It was just getting frustrating. I tinkered with it a little; my own sewing machine is nearly a decade older than I am and keeps me versed in sewing machine mechanics.

This morning, I figured that I had about an hour to tinker with the bobbin and the tension some more, and I finally got the thread to behave. After stitching straight lines and zig zags, I thought it was time for Taylor to start on her project.

I had a scrap of fabric hanging around from the twins’ dresses, just big enough to make a little pillow for one of Taylor’s dolls. When I sat her down, she was upset with me because I took too long to get started. I explained to her that I wanted her to have a good experience with a sewing machine. (There are few things more frustrating than a machine that doesn’t cooperate!) I taught her to start with a reverse stitch as an anchor. She sewed straight lines down the side until she reached the end, where I taught her to lift the foot, turn the work, drop the foot, and sew another straight line. She did that for three sides until she was about three inches from the end. Reverse stitch to anchor.

She turned the work inside out and stuffed it polyester fiberfill. As she was doing that, she kept exclaiming, “This is so cute! This is going to be so cute!”

I was thinking about teaching her to hand sew the pillow shut, but I wasn’t in the frame of mind to teach her to wield a needle and produce a whipstitch. She used her machine again to stitch it, practicing the reverse stitch to anchor, forward straight stitch, and reverse stitch again.

Once that was completed, I took a picture of her with her first project and the sewing machine.

I’m thinking about her next project, something that still involves straight lines…

Check Your Chess

Saturday, June 11th, 2011
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Last weekend, Dear Husband came home with a chess set. We have a few chess sets (or have gone through a few sets) in the house, but this set has a sheet of metal under the board to keep the magnetized pieces on it. It’s useful if your children don’t have iPods to listen to in the car or want to wander around the house with the board ready to go, asking people if they want to play.

Ty and Kyle took the chess set into their room and began to play. A few hours later, Kyle asked if I wanted to play with him. “Okay,” so I watched him set up the board, and he played white.

He moved his pawns sideways. He took pieces that his “horse” jumped over.

“Kyle, I don’t think that’s how you’re supposed to play.”
“Oh, Ty and I were playing like this.”
“It’s not checkers, and your pawns can only move forward.”

So I explained to him how the pieces move. He really enjoyed the lesson because he’s an expert at battles and knights and guards and kings and stuff like that. I started with the pawn, telling him that he carries a shield and moves forward easily but because he’s carrying a shield, he can only attack diagonally. A knight can jump over pawns and other fighters because he’s on a horse. And a rook, well, a rook is a favorite in this house because he’s an archer. He, along with the fellow rook and the queen, can hit an enemy from far away.
After a game with Kyle, Ty and I played.

When we go outside to the front yard, I usually practice a musical instrument that’s not the piano and the children climb trees or play tag. After we started playing chess, the boys began pretending that they were chess pieces, rooks and bishops and all, and ran aorund the yard pretending to shoot arrows and run diagonally and capture each other.

Dear Husband turned on the Mac computer and introduced the boys to the chess software. They played and played for hours. They were hooked on it. Of course, the computer wins every game. They also found out how to play against each other and watch the computer play itself.

The next time that I played Ty, he beat me! My only excuse was that I was playing white pieces, which I never practice. But that’s a weak excuse.

I later played Kyle. Although I won, I did notice that his game got better. He did put up a good fight. Days went by, and I practiced my music while the boys slashed with their swords and hid behind trees. Yesterday, Ty and I played again when we were outside. He beat me both times.

That’s it!
Instead of practicing the violin or guitar while I’m outside, I’m going to start pretending that I’m a pawn or a rook.

Out of Nowhere

Thursday, May 12th, 2011
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Kyle said to me, “Hey, Mommy, it was Abraham, right, who counted the stars and God told him that he would have a son, right?”

I looked up in wonder and awe. “Yes, Kyle. where did you hear that?”

He walked to the piano, stood in front of it, and played “Joy to the World.” “I read it in the Bible. You know, the Young Readers Bible.”

*big smile from me* “Yes, Kyle. That’s… that’s how it goes.”

“Yup.” He finished his piece and went along his merry way.

This makes me think of a particular Bible verse, Joshua 24:15, “And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”

April Fifth

Monday, April 25th, 2011
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Landed on a Tuesday this year. There was one last Arctic low-pressure system traveling southeast at an unusually fast pace. The morning here was beautiful, with no sign of storm.


Our state butterfly, a zebra longwing, fluttered into the back patio. Sometimes they accidentally get trapped inside because we have a panel that needs fixing.

The children and I went to the home schooling group as we usually do on Tuesdays. While at the park, I sat on a bench that faced north. After thirty minutes, I say the dense, dark gray clouds of the system low in the horizon, at about ten or twelve degrees. I wasn’t worried. Only a few minutes later, when I observed the skies again, the edge of the clouds were higher up (at about 25 degrees!), clearly closer, and its cool winds were racing through the park, threatening the modesty of skirt-wearing mothers. I piled the children into the van and headed for home, hoping that we could travel half a mile down the road before the downpour began. Dad called me on the cellular phone to find about our status. He told me about a bird that had been caught in the screened patio.

It was a good ten minutes that we were out of the van and into the house when the first rains came. The smooth shower was nothing that we had expected, but then it hit us hard, like a summer storm from the Everglades. We like to keep the doors and windows open even when it rains like this to take in the fresh, rainy air. The front door is kept open but the screen door in front of the front door is kept closed.


The bird that was caught in the back patio was an American Redstart. What a sight! He’d fly up to the top of the screen, grab a hold of it with his claws, and spread his tail. What colors! He really was gorgeous. Although he found shelter from the storm, we thought he might be happier in his nest — maybe he has fledglings. We figured that he knew his way out when we couldn’t find him anymore.

I took Kendall into the girls’ room to change her diaper when I heard a strange… conversation… coming from the front window. Dad, in a concerned tone asked the person outside, “Hey, who are you? Do you need help?” I was a little confused. He’s not that sweet with strangers at the door. Who would be wandering the neighborhood streets in this storm, anyway? I heard him put our dog in her crate and open the screen door. I walked down the hall and saw him holding a small dog. The poor thing was wet and shivering. He was without tag but looked well fed. I helped to leash Isis, put down a towel in her crate, and allow the little dog to dry off in Isis’ crate.

For a few hours, we tried to figure out what kind of dog he was and what was his situation. His body was that of a short haired terrier: too small to be a Jack Russell and too large to be a Chihuahua. His eyes didn’t bulge out like a Chihuahua’s, and his ears didn’t lie down like a Jack Russell’s. His coat was short and two-toned, gradient from beige at the head, light gray in the middle and dark gray toward the tail. We thought he was a mutt, I mean, mixed breed. He had a fat, happy belly which meant that someone has been taking care of him. He was pretty good on a leash when going out to do Number One. He growled at our dog a little and nipped Kendall on the finger (because she was bothering him in the crate) which meant he is used to one or two grown owners. But this was all speculation. We also kept our hearts and minds open to adopting him if we couldn’t find his owner.

I went to work that afternoon. When I came back, Little Dog was still in his crate. Of course, he was given water and the food we had. I put him on the leash to go Number One again.

About three times a night, I get up to drink water. Little Dog must have not slept a wink as each time that I walked down the hallway, I found him standing in the crate, facing the hallway, alert as can be. It was obvious that he wasn’t comfortable.

The next morning, Wednesday, Dad left for work. He stopped by the pet store to pick up water and food bowls and a leash for Little Dog. We stayed home on the lookout for cars’ passing very slowly, obviously looking for a lost dog. We walked him on the leash several times around the island of our driveway so that passersby could see us. Dad came home, very excited.

He had seen two flyers on the corkboard at the grocery store, one that described the dog as a “shaved Yorkie.” We googled “shaved yorkie” and agreed that Little Dog could well be a shaved Yorkie. He called the phone number on the flyer.

Not five minutes later, a very nervous and excited woman pulled onto our swale and ran out of her car, asking loudly, “Where is he?” We let her into our home to see where were keeping the dog, and she started to cry. Tears of Joy. Little Dog was happy to see her, and she was relieved as ever to have her little buddy in her arms. She explained that she “moved to the neighborhood thirty days before, was having some work done at the house. The workers left the screen door of patio open, so Harley got lost.” She has a tag for him but will keep it on him from now on instead of just when they go out.

So we were with two extra bowls and a leash. We didn’t need them, so Dad returned them. A couple of weeks later, the store had some corn snakes for sale. On April thirteenth, Dad bought one.


We named him Harley, after Little Dog.

Red Fang of Nature

Saturday, April 23rd, 2011
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A couple of weeks ago, I spotted a monarch caterpillar in the J-form, ready to pupate. We watched it as a chrysalis for days and days. Usually, a monarch chrysalis turns black: the skin becomes transparent while the black, orange, and white wings show through.

On Thursday afternoon, the chrysalis started turning shadows and streaks of black, indicating that it was going to emerge after a couple of days. On Friday, I didn’t see much of a change in the color of the chrysalis. Dad told me that it changed completely black and was ready to emerge. It emerged this morning.

I walked outside to look for the chrysalis, but it was clear and empty. Usually, the butterfly will crawl upwards to the top of the plant, but this one, I found on the ground. After emerging, the butterflies flap their wings and crawl around, waiting for the sun to dry them. This one was having a hard time flapping his wings. Upon closer observation, I saw that his abdomen was not entirely black as for a healthy butterfly but half black with spots of cream color. It had a fluid coming out of the back end of it. It did not look healthy. I picked it up to show Dad. We were all excited about this new butterfly but slightly concerned about the unusual colors on the abdomen. I put him down where I found him.

About an hour later, there were ants all around him, making holes through his wings and devouring his abdomen. He was still alive! It was horrible to watch. The lower segments of his legs were missing, too. Ty asked why the ants were doing that. I reminded him that the sun shines on the milkweed leaves, helping to produce food and oxygen. The caterpillar eats the leaves, pupates, emerges, and directly proceeds to die, getting eaten by scavengers, not reproducing nor pollinating but simply becoming food.

Here is more on monarch butterflies’ diseases. It is mostly objective information except for one sentence at the end, “It is a selfish act to release diseased butterflies…” Ignorant? Maybe. But selfish? I think the scientist should stick to science and keep opinions in her mind… or on her blog.

Thank you, Little Monarch, for feeding the ants and keeping them out of my house. If that was your purpose, you served well.